Pain In Pleasure by Elizabeth Barrett Browning
A THOUGHT ay like a flower upon mine heart,
And drew around it other thoughts like bees
For multitude and thirst of sweetnesses;
Whereat rejoicing, I desired the art
Of the Greek whistler, who to wharf and mart
Could lure those insect swarms from orange-trees
That I might hive with me such thoughts and please
My soul so, always. foolish counterpart
Of a weak man's vain wishes ! While I spoke,
The thought I called a flower grew nettle-rough
The thoughts, called bees, stung me to festering:
Oh, entertain (cried Reason as she woke)
Your best and gladdest thoughts but long enough,
And they will all prove sad enough to sting !
This poem tells its readers how pleasure is associated with pain. The poet loved and had experienced happiness before. He had sweet thoughts like flowers but later bees came to draw the nectar out, signaling that when other things came along, that were not as pleasurable as the previous happy thought, the poet would feel pain as he gradually felt pain after the drawing of nectar. With pain, there would be pleasure, but without pain, there would be no pleasure.
Just like in The Giver, a memory of pain gives meaning to pleasure. In the community, life is monotonous, without joy, devoid of emotional variation because pleasurable things do not have the value that a memory of pain would give them. Pain is not felt as fully as it would be if the person experiencing it had the knowledge of pleasure. In Jonas’s community, everything was provided for the citizens, from the rudiments like food and clothes to each citizen’s mates and children that they will live with till they enter the house of childless adults. The citizens lived a life of comfort and have never experienced pain in their entire life; hence they do not understand the meaning of pleasure. No matter how delightful an experience is, one cannot experience the value of the pleasure it gives unless one has suffered before. Therefore, I can conclude that pain is associated with pleasure, with no pleasure there would be no pain and vice versa.